Category: on the road

  • turkish delightful

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    Just got done brushing the fringe on my towels.

    Along with apple tea, friendly people, fresh air and a gorgeous skyline, one of the bright stars in the starry, starry sky that is Istanbul are hand-woven towels.

    This one store employs and inspires weavers to work their looms like it's a hundred years ago and machines for mass-producing towels haven't been invented yet.

    Jennifer, the owner, understands the instant devotion her merchandise inspires. She thought it was normal when we spent two hours in the shop touching everything but her. "Oh, you'd have to stay another three hours to even approach the record," she said. 

    Jennifer started with one weaver making sustainable, ecological, organically-grown silk scarves, cotton and linen towels and blankets. Now she spends half her time driving around the Turkish countryside looking for traditional artisans with still-operational antique looms who can produce work to the standards her devotees around the world have come to cherish.

    When we visited, merchandise was set aside for a Saudi wife who likes towels in sets of at least six, and a special-order terry-looped robe for a Romanian prince.

    Our first day in Istanbul, on the way to the Blue Mosque we found one of Jennifer's shops, got the story on the towels and bought a pile of them. Later we walked past another of her shops and ended up buying MORE towels. When we saw the third shop and went in and bought MORE, I knew I had contracted a disease.

    Hand-loomed of ecologically grown cotton and colored from dyes made "in the garden" say her weavers, these towels fluff up to an organic whipped-cream luxurious-ness. I bought some textured white towels and some colorful ones, thinking the colorful ones were probably a little over-the-top for me. Now that they live with us, I love the subtly-stripped multi-hued ones best.

    You only need to go to Istanbul every twenty years to buy towels because they are going to last that long, longer if you don't put them in the dryer, says Jennifer. But make sure you buy enough. Because somehow, in spite of visiting all three of her shops, I need more. 

    It's just a towel! But having something you use and touch everyday, especially something you get naked with, to be amazing–these are life-enhancing towels!

    Before using, the towels need to soak for twenty-four hours so the cotton becomes acquainted with water and learns how to be absorbent. Hang dry the first time. Somehow these towels when hung outside on the line, do not dry to a rough, flat board. They dry fluffy and plush with the soul of something made row by row by human hands.

    These are the sports cars of towels–the same way you might find yourself polishing the wheels of your fancy car–you too might find yourself outside on a sunny spring day after a trip to Istanbul brushing the fringe of your towels. Not because you have to, but because you want to.

  • experiences, not things. well, a teapot and some chocolate.

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    Milan makes any sentence sound better.

    After spending an entire day luxuriating in a fancy Swiss grocery store, stocking up on snacks for Camille's dorm room on Saturday, we awoke to no plans beyond croissants and hot chocolate on Sunday. So we left Lugano and hit the autostrade in our hilariously tiny Fiat. An hour later, the Duomo impressed, then we ate lunch. Then we bought tea and chocolates. Seriously, does it get any better? Yes it does, "We bought tea and chocolate in Milan."

    At the restaurant in our hotel, I held up four American fingers — which to the Italian waiter means five. "Cinque?" he asked. "Patru," I said, which means four in Romanian. "Quatro?" he asked. "Da," I said. I don't speak Romanian or Italian and I can't even count on my fingers.

    We stacked Camille's dorm room with crackers, dried apples, pistachios and pretzels. We ate the predictably but none-the-less-incredible gelato – I mean, liquid chocolate poured into the cone? Really?

    Stefan ate pizza every. single. night and we didn't complain because the shrimp/avo/caprese salad and steak went very well with the wine. We all agreed that the optimum number of anchovies per any pizza tops out at four.

    Camille suffered the devastating loss of her baby: her iphone. But after a 24-hour period of disasterizing, we found it again miraculously right where she had left it! I got a new tea pot. The kids drank sips of prosecco with us while we watched the Maxfield Parrish sunset from the roof. Then it got cold and we had to go in. In the night, the rain sounded like city traffic and the next night the wind howled. We saw a poodle in a dress.

    We went to a reception for parents at the school's founder's house and admired the 18th century paintings that came with the villa while drinking champagne. 

    Stefan wore his sweatshirt with holes in the pockets. In Milan. 

     

  • cerulean could be the new black

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    What's really funny about this sign is that no A2 highway leads to Constanta. Contrary to this sign's version of reality, the gorgeously paved 4-lane A2 highway to Constanta came to a screeching halt — and us along with it. We backtracked, on a narrow road through teeny villages where people sell peaches and nectarines from their gardens on the side of the road. They were good, too.

    The drive to our house on the Black Sea didn't take three and half hours, as Google tried to trick us into believing, it actually took five. But if it had taken 10 and I was still driving home, it would have been worth it.

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    When we got to the house we were welcomed by swallows, liden trees, and a wide open view of the sea. Five minutes down the road is the rightly, if cheesily named, Golden Sands beach. I guess they were trying to make up for the very poorly named Black Sea.

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    I understand Azure Sea or Cerulean Sea might have made them go overbudget. But they should have spent a little more money and not gone with basic Black. I know it's classic, but it sends the wrong message. Maybe they can get a refund and go with a different agency.

    Drive through Oregon-sized Romania to the California-sized Black Sea and tell me even Blue Sea wouldn't be a better name.

  • in romanian: tei, in bulgarian: lipa

    Right now, especially in the evening, Bucharest smells divine, like a $60 Diptyque candle.

    I open the doors and windows of the house to let the scent fill the house. I can't figure out what it is, it's everywhere, but nowhere particular.

    Last week I had a priest-beekeeper come to the embassy to sell honey. He brought huge jars of farm fresh acacia honey, which he sold for about $8. He told me soon he can bring other kinds of honey, depending on the bees, of course. He thinks the next variety will be "Tei tree, with the flowers." "Tea tree?" "Lime," he says. "But not lime the fruit." Google and I couldn't figure out what he was talking about. 

    When we got to our house on the Black Sea coast in Bulgaria the air smelled sweet and delicious. "It's the lime tree," said the propriator. "The Bulgarians are crazy for it. You'll see them picking it everywhere, to make tea and to bathe in. We call it Tilia,"  she said in her British accent. Okay, let me look that one up.

    Linden. Stefan made tea, Camille put the flowers in her bath (it's suppose to calm hysteria) and I'm just breathing the flower-scented air.

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  • si si si sicily

    I entered into the Must Get Out of Bucharest Machine:

    • Cheap, short flight
    • Not expensive, dog-friendly accommodations (Paris/London = no way)
    • A view…with a beach would be best

    And out popped Sicily.

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    The view of the village of Taomina from our balcony.

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    The view of our balcony, not quite all the way from Taomina.

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    Camille and Bea opening the gate to The Lemon Tree Villa. I love staying anywhere called a villa.

    I didn't even enter in:
    • Good wine
    • A diffent flavor of gelato every day
    • The popsicle store
    • A Fiat Cinquecinto "Wait! I drove up to the top of this road but we can't drive down stairs!"
    • One-person-sized presecco
    * Sheep on the road
    * Spring showers at night, wam sun during the day 
    • Aritchokes 

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    Even Bea is enjoying Sicily.

  • 12 days of christmas in 7 days in paris

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    Two feet around the very center of Paris.

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    Three French macaroons at Angelina at Versailles.

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    Four matching bracelets. Three years ago we bought matching silk-corded bracelets that the four of us wore until they fell off. Peter's was the last to give out, he wore his tiny LOVE amulet for almost three years! I didn't know if the store would still be there, or if they would still have the bracelets. When we found the store and I expressed my relief to the proprietor she said, "We've been here for 25 years." They still have the bracelets too, and we are outfitted for another couple years, or until our next trip to Paris.

    Camille discovers the 4th arrondisement.

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    One of the huge fireplaces at the Chateau de Vincenne, five minutes from where we stayed. Where's Santa?Paris_santa chimney

    Six pounds of clementines a day. Stefan discovered the charm of squeezing the peel into a candle flame and now it's like, his job.

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    Seven nights of gorgeous lights. Also, Beaumarchais fans, squeee!

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    Eight stops from our hotel to Saint Paul on the number 1 line metro.

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    Ten trips a day to the bakery for croissants.

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    Eleven pipers piping.

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    Twelve drummers pounding in my head–I've had Bronchitis/possibly Pnemonia–I call it Cough Until You Pee or Throw Up. Having a fever every day has given this last couple of weeks an altered feeling, I knew I was sick when I couldn't be bothered to try on these shoes at Comptoires de Cotonnier. I don't recommend being ill. I do recommend Paris at Chirstmastime though, they have zithromax a plenty and you can always order online.
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  • dracula tourism

    Bran Castle, located in Transylvania, matches Americans' Hollywood idea of where Dracula lived. The architecture screams gothic, but where is the foreboding cloud action?

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    Brasov_writing on the wallBuilt as a fortress in 1212 when Rome and Luxemburg argued over the area, Queen Marie of Romania enjoyed summers here until they booted her out in 1948. The castle has been given back to the Hapsburgs, they've graciously spent quite a lot of money de-decaying it and scattering bear rugs and crowns about. In 2009, the castle opened as a museum and a place to rent for private parties, for the red-lined-dress-capes-for-men crowd, presumeably.

    Wandering through the dining room, I thought of my favorite part in the book, where Dracula pretends to have servants and sneaks around fixing dinner and preparing rooms, scrubbing pots and making beds behind his guest's back.

    The foundation that runs the castle does a good job explaining who Vlad the Impaler was, one of his many middle names was Dracula, and local beliefs about undead ghosts. People really do hang garlic over their doors in this area, but signing the guest book on the way out, Peter and I were embassassed by the Americans disappointed with the castle who found it "uninteresting." They weren't actually attacked by a vampire, so they want their $2 admission fee back?

    We wandered past carved doors, ate blood-orange flavored black gumdrops, admired the sword collection and enjoyed the hospitality of the imaginary Count Dracula. We didn't see any sharp teeth climbing up the creepy secret staricase in the house, but saw plenty them for sale in the stalls at the base of the castle.

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  • the road to lake balea, the transfăgărășan highway, yeah that

    You know you've started your Romanian roadtrip and have left Bucharest behind when you have to drive around horse carts.

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    The Top Gear guys drove the road to Lake Balea last spring–in a Masarati, a Austin Martin and a Ferrari. We weren't really sure what to expect–maybe we should have watched the show before the drive?

    But it started off pretty.

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    And then got stunning.

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    Then we started climbing up and seeing snow. Kind of a lot of snow.

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    Then it got ridiculous.

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    Since I've been home and watched the show, I know now that the Top Gear guys describe this road as the "best race track turns in the world, knitted together."

    The road went up and up and up, a million hairpin turns, to an elevation of 6000 feet, then we came to what looked like end of the road. I'd heard the pass can be closed when it snows, but I didn't expect it to be closed in October. We drove hours of switchbacks and can't get to the lake?

    As we approched what we thought was the end of the road, next to a WC with the best view in the world, we saw a tunnel.

    Brasov_WCYou come out of the tunnel, (the longest in Romania) pass the lake by mistake, have to TURN AROUND on this road where there is absolutely no turning around, then go back up an even steeper road to the tiny alpine lake, almost completely frozen. The hotel couldn't be any more on the lake, in fact, we were a little afraid of it falling in.

    They build an ice hotel in December, so I can't wait to go back.

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    In the night our water bottles in the car froze, so I was glad I'd stuffed the dog into a suitcase and smuggled her up to our room. She has no idea she's thrown up three times on what the Top Gear guys call the "best driving road in the world." 

  • the queen mary–the only way to fly

    Leaving behind friends and places that have defined your life for three years, having everything you own packed up and on its way to somewhere you have never seen, going home with family for the first time in year, teetering between your past life and your future–flying cramped economy, smelling the airplane bathroom for ten hours does not do this moment justice.

    Taking a week to sail across the Atlantic in the pampered comfort of a king-sized bed, afternoon tea in Wedgewood cups followed by a three course dinners and dancing to a live band suits the occasion much better. At pretty much the same cost as flying coach–this has to be the best-kept secret in the Foreign Service.

    For two years I was sceptical. Will we be reimbursed? Is it really okay to go home by ship? Yep. It's all there in the FAM, the Foreign Service regulation handbook. Baron and Irene sailed to Russia three years ago to get to post, they convinced us it really is do-able, and I can't wait to follow their voyage and relive the whole thing when they sail later this month. Also helpful: a brother-in-law travel agent who got us a great deal on the price of the voyage.

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    We were thrilled seeing the ship in the harbor, and not just because we could put scissors or shampoo in any bag!

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    This or flying economy?

    From the first night, when the chef sliced off a perfect piece of prime rib, we sat around trying to dream up things to complain about. "Room service was suppose to bring me a latte, not just coffee!" said Peter on our first morning. After he poured, and took a sip, he sighed: "Oh, this is a latte. But I'll keep trying to find something that isn't perfect on this ship!"

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    QE2dinner How I miss those little flower-shaped butters. And the perfectly prepared and served everything.

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    We worked out in the gorgeous eucalyptus-scented gym, we checked out the ship's library, went to movies and planetarium shows, you can be busy every second. Stefan only managed to swim in two of the four pools because he took a daily song-writing class (and performed on stage our last night on board). We also enjoyed the time spent not doing much, you can just lay around listen to your ipod and doodle. Until it's time for scones and tea at 3:30.

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    As one reviewer wrote, (lots of information and great photos on his website) "I have come to realise that staggering round a transatlantic liner in a dinner jacket with a martini is the normal, rational, reasonable way to cross the Atlantic. Heading for an airport and strapping yourself to a flimsy aluminium tube is an unfortunate and eccentric aberration."

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    We love not flying.

    Arriving in New York city under sunny skies, looking straight up 5th Avenue, sitting out on the deck admiring the skyline with beverages while our luggage was brought to shore, the QM2 never stops being a perfect moment you need.

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